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Rumaya Juhari
Do Malay parents difffer in their parenting practices as compared to other Muslim parents? I am trying to find out whether the race matters -- or is it highly personal, depending upon many other factors and not the Malay race..input please...

Wednesday at 22:01 · ·

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- Norhani Abdul Rahman do you mean malays in malaysia...or malays generally?..ada malays from indonesia, sri lanka, south africa, brunei..
  
  Wednesday at 22:07 ·
- Rumaya Juhari Malaysia dulu la kita cerita..
  
  Wednesday at 22:32 ·
- Ashkan Asadollahi
  
  Dear Prof. You think only about Race! It's too Challenging.
  
  Because there is one Neglect in your voice [with apologizes]
  The neglect is here, Are all Muslims parents have similar experiences in their parenting, child bearing and rearing?
  
  Better to say in simple words, If we find any Sig. differentiation within them, We cant say: "this was caused by Ethnic/Race differences" !
  Might caused by their Islamic visions & Muslim's attitudes to the World, Humanity, Family, and Parenting.
  
  All time I see in Malaysian articles and papers (when Islam is one of their variables), the Islamic experiences are alike from Morocco to Brunei! It's truly a GREAT NEGLECT in Malaysian scholars' papers.
  
  They think with non-scientific basis the Islam is World ! No, the Islam are WORLDS.
  
  I apologize for my straightforward voices, dear Prof. :-)
  
  Wednesday at 22:38 · · 1 person
- Mimi Hameza Emm, menarik. I think regardless of the parenting style, the values, beliefs in practice among the malay's & Muslims parents are different.
  
  Wednesday at 22:57 ·
- Rojanah Kahar Melayu...ada yg mengaku Muslim tapi tak amal. Muslim tak semestinya dapat jadi Mukmin...dan kalau Mukmin, normally dia Muslim ...panjang discussionnya.....
  
  Wednesday at 23:16 ·
- Rojanah Kahar Muslim can be Malay, Chinese or even Indian, Arab...tapi definisi di malaysia Melayu itu Muslim....
  
  Wednesday at 23:19 · · 1 person
- Ashkan Asadollahi Dear Rojanah,
  Yep, Your'e in true, but differences are from our Islam view not only from our races and/or ethnic.
  
  Wednesday at 23:21 ·
- Norhani Abdul Rahman
  
  kak..this is what i think ok..
  yes, malay parents differ in their parenting practices as compared to other Muslim parents, and yes, race does matter.
  contohnye kak..bila kite ajar anak kita salam, kite salam and cium tangan orang yang lebih t...See more
  
  Wednesday at 23:50 ·
- Norhani Abdul Rahman kite orang melayu penuh dengan adat kak, contoh lagi, kalau orang datang bertandang ke rumah, (at least, this is what i've been taught by my parents),kita jamu and kita raikan tetamu, kalau semua duduk di atas lantai, dengan kite2 sekali duduk di lantai, tanda kita hormat.. and i think this is very selari dengan islam.
  
  Thursday at 02:44 ·
- Jalina Abdul Jalil
  
  Salaam Maya, this is coming from a non parent, The issue is not so much race but rather of the values we have, how much knowledge we have about how to live our lives as Muslim in accordance to the sunnah of the Prophet S.A.W, socio economic status etc. Our upbringing was very different from the kids today, regardless of race and religion. Regardless, Those who love and understand Islam correctly will raise their kids in keeping with the sunnah insyallah. Of course certain permissible adats will come into play, like food and permissible dressing. Those who haven't yet been given hidayah, will raise the kids as all parents would do, stressing importance only on education and skills for dunia
  
  Thursday at 07:34 · · 1 person
- Rumaya Juhari Ashkan, d Islamic way of life is a very clear variable. I did nt say it is nt important..it has to be d foundatiön, right? D purpose is to get input on d role of race n ethnic in shaping Muslim parenting practices. Do d Malays differ fr other Muslim parents?
  
  Thursday at 07:45 · · 1 person
- Ashkan Asadollahi Yep dear Prof, I got your voice. But I want to say any sig diff might caused by our Islamic visions, not only from diff. of races/ethnic groups.
  Malaysian scholars should attend to this issue too. TQ.
  
  Thursday at 12:09 ·